Members Only Play Party
Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.
Held most Saturdays.
Members Only Play Party
Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.
Held most Saturdays.
Chain Bondage for Beginners
A hands-on, beginner-friendly workshop covering safety, technique, and the seductive possibilities of cold, hard steel. Chains are a kink staple that conjure imagery of dungeons, power, and restraint. In this beginner-level workshop, you'll learn how to safely and confidently use chains in bondage through live demonstration and guided practice.
Board Meeting
Please come out and join us in our business & planning time during board meetings.
Agenda items will vary from month to month.
Standard Items each month are:
Monthly Financial Report, Maintenance Report, Volunteer Scheduling, Upcoming Event Needs.
Fresh Meet Friday - Open Party
Join us for Fresh Meet Fridays, where newcomers and curious individuals can experience the welcoming environment of Kitsap ACES without needing a member sponsor. Arrive by 8:00 p.m. to complete check-in and stay for a night of socializing, exploration, and play after the orientation at 8:30 p.m. Whether you're looking to meet new people, watch scenes, or jump into play, everyone is encouraged to participate at their comfort level. Expect a respectful, inclusive atmosphere with a diverse mix of attendees. Come see what ACES is all about!
Held on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of each month.
Members Only Play Party
Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.
Held most Saturdays.
Rope Open Party
Rope Party – A Night of Knots and Kink
Whether you're an experienced rigger, a rope bunny, or simply curious about what rope can bring to your play, this party is for you. Our Rope Party is a night to connect, explore, and get inspired by the endless possibilities of rope and kink.
Held First Friday of Odd Numbered Months
Members Only Play Party
Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.
Held most Saturdays.
Fresh Meet Friday - Open Party
Join us for Fresh Meet Fridays, where newcomers and curious individuals can experience the welcoming environment of Kitsap ACES without needing a member sponsor. Arrive by 8:00 p.m. to complete check-in and stay for a night of socializing, exploration, and play after the orientation at 8:30 p.m. Whether you're looking to meet new people, watch scenes, or jump into play, everyone is encouraged to participate at their comfort level. Expect a respectful, inclusive atmosphere with a diverse mix of attendees. Come see what ACES is all about!
Held on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of each month.
Pinups & Paddles Members Party and Silent Aucition
✨ Get ready to unleash your inner retro rebel! Join us for a night of Pinups and Paddles! ✨
Dive into the fun with a kink party featuring a silent auction that'll have you bidding for some fabulous treasures! Dress dapper and bring your best vintage vibes! Don’t miss out on this unforgettable night of playful elegance.
Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.
Members Only Play Party
Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.
Held most Saturdays.
Fresh Meet Friday - Open Party
Join us for Fresh Meet Fridays, where newcomers and curious individuals can experience the welcoming environment of Kitsap ACES without needing a member sponsor. Arrive by 8:00 p.m. to complete check-in and stay for a night of socializing, exploration, and play after the orientation at 8:30 p.m. Whether you're looking to meet new people, watch scenes, or jump into play, everyone is encouraged to participate at their comfort level. Expect a respectful, inclusive atmosphere with a diverse mix of attendees. Come see what ACES is all about!
Held on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of each month.
Members Only Play Party
Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.
Held most Saturdays.
Exploratorium - Day Camp Themed Taster Event
For the 3rd year, we bring you the Kitsap ACES Exploratorium– a daytime learning experience for newbies and curious folks who want to branch out a little more.
What’s an Exploratorium?
It’s a taster event, where you can try all the naughty activities you’ve been curious about in a safe, supportive environment. This event is open to all, you do not need to be an ACES member to attend.
Camp After Dark Open Play Party
Dive deeper into what you learned at the Exploratorium with a play party for members and new friends alike. If you are not a member, please arrive by 8:15pm so that you can complete all the necessary paperwork and be prepared for an orientation at 8:30pm. Please do not engage in any play prior to orientation and we have no cell phone policy inside the building during party hours.
The counselors have all retreated to their cabins and now it’s time to party.
Show off the badges you have earned, practice your new skills and share some stories with other campers.
Fresh Meet Friday - Open Party
Join us for Fresh Meet Fridays, where newcomers and curious individuals can experience the welcoming environment of Kitsap ACES without needing a member sponsor. Arrive by 8:00 p.m. to complete check-in and stay for a night of socializing, exploration, and play after the orientation at 8:30 p.m. Whether you're looking to meet new people, watch scenes, or jump into play, everyone is encouraged to participate at their comfort level. Expect a respectful, inclusive atmosphere with a diverse mix of attendees. Come see what ACES is all about!
Held on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of each month.
Members Only Play Party & Membership Drive!
Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.
Held most Saturdays.
Spring 2025 All Members Meeting
Calling all members: please join us to cover what the future holds!
Meeting Agenda:
· 2025 year-to-date financial review
· Volunteer news
· Refreshing ACES logo and website
· Board elections - see more details below
· Upcoming events
· Private rental changes
· Orientation update and refreshers
· One night memberships
· QTs and rope party rotation
Kitsap ACES Membership Drive
Spring 2025 Membership Renewal Sale!
About time to renew? We gotchu. Now is the best time to start or extend your membership at ACES. We’re a nonprofit that depends on memberships to keep the doors open, and to make it easier on the wallet we’re offering 20% off if you renew during our spring member drive!
💸😏 Take that, inflation.
💥 You can get a 20% discount on Limited, Basic and Premier memberships, in 6-month or 1-year options. 💥
$12-$24 off Limited
$25-$50 off Basic
$50- $100 off Premier
Attend any of our events happening between April 4-5 to get this discount!
April 4th - QTs Queer Trans Play Party
April 5th - All Members Meeting
April 5th - Members Play Party
Memberships are available at the door of our events. Show up, fill out a waiver, bring your state or federal ID, and secure your membership!
QTs (Queer & Trans) Play Party
Hey QT🌈! This year we are hosting six, count them: SIX play parties! We will be hosting a play party every other first Friday of every even-numbered month. Also…
🎉🎉🎉 It's Our Birthday!! 🎉🎉🎉
Kitsap Queer Group has been running for 2 years and we want to celebrate! There will be cake, there will be spanks, and there will be lots of queer shenanigans 🎂👋🌈
To make the event even more special, we are kicking off the Kitsap ACES Membership Drive.
🏷️ 20% OFF MEMBERSHIPS 🏷️
Get a discount on Limited, Basic and Premier memberships, with 6-month and 1-year options.
This is a play party for queer and trans-identified individuals. Come with all of your toys and your fabulousness! Members AND Non-members are welcome (non-member rules apply). If you are new to the space and/or are not a member, please arrive by 8:30pm for an orientation of the space by the lovely Purr-maid.
Attire: Street legal into the building, but once inside all levels of dress (and undress) are welcome and encouraged. This play party is hosted by the Queer Discussion Group which meets the first Tuesday of every month.
Cost: $25 for non members, members regular price, YOU DO NOT NEED TO BE A MEMBER TO ATTEND!
Members Only Play Party
Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.
Held most Saturdays.
Board Meeting
Get involved with the inner workings of ACES by attending our monthly board meetings. These sessions are open to members who want to contribute ideas, stay informed, or explore joining the board. It's a great chance to help shape our community and participate in planning future events. Whether you're curious or committed, your voice is welcome!
Held monthly.
Fresh Meet Fridays
Join us for Fresh Meet Fridays, where newcomers and curious individuals can experience the welcoming environment of Kitsap ACES without needing a member sponsor. Arrive by 8:00 p.m. to complete check-in and stay for a night of socializing, exploration, and play after the orientation at 8:30 p.m. Whether you're looking to meet new people, watch scenes, or jump into play, everyone is encouraged to participate at their comfort level. Expect a respectful, inclusive atmosphere with a diverse mix of attendees. Come see what ACES is all about!
Held on the 2nd and 3rd Fridays of each month.
Members Only Play Party
Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.
Held most Saturdays.
A Switchy Soirée w/ Lady V & Biscuit the bootblack puppy
Celebrate the versatility of kink at our Switch Party hosted by the dynamic Lady V. Whether you’re a top, bottom, or somewhere in between, this event is all about embracing every role in a fun, supportive environment. Open to both members and non-members, this party invites you to explore, play, and connect.
Switchinatrix: Harnessing Your Power as a Switch w/ Lady V
Switchinatrix: Harnessing Your Power as a Switch
This class celebrates the versatility of being a switch, exploring how to fully embrace different roles and experiences in kink and intimacy. Dive into topics like switching within dynamics, exploring various headspaces, breaking down stigma, and balancing power exchange relationships. Open to everyone, not just switches, it aims to empower participants to maximize their relationships and personal growth in the kink community.
Spanks & Giving
Join us for the Spanks and Giving Potluck Celebration at Kitsap ACES! Bring your favorite dish or leftovers and enjoy an evening of food, fun, and connection with your chosen family. Doors open at 6 PM, and the event runs until midnight. Members and their guests are welcome!
Members Only Play Party
Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.
Held most Saturdays.
Fresh Meet Fridays
Join us for Fresh Meet Fridays, where newcomers and curious individuals can experience the welcoming environment of Kitsap ACES without needing a member sponsor. Arrive by 8:00 p.m. to complete check-in and stay for a night of socializing, exploration, and play after the orientation at 8:30 p.m. Whether you're looking to meet new people, watch scenes, or jump into play, everyone is encouraged to participate at their comfort level. Expect a respectful, inclusive atmosphere with a diverse mix of attendees. Come see what ACES is all about!
Held on the 2nd and 3rd Fridays of each month.
Board Meeting
Get involved with the inner workings of ACES by attending our monthly board meetings. These sessions are open to members who want to contribute ideas, stay informed, or explore joining the board. It's a great chance to help shape our community and participate in planning future events. Whether you're curious or committed, your voice is welcome!
Held monthly.
Members Only Play Party
Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.
Held most Saturdays.
Members Only Play Party
Experience a Member’s Only evening at ACES, where members and their guests can explore a variety of play options and connect in a welcoming, private setting. Enjoy access to a wide range of toys, versatile play furniture, rope-tying hard points, a cage, a cozy social/aftercare lounge and more. Whether you're here to play or just relax and make new friends, ACES has something for everyone.
Held most Saturdays.
Kitsap Social Munch
Everyone in the community is invited to join—whether you're kinky, LGBTQ+, BIPOC, poly, or just curious. Enjoy a relaxed, 21+ meetup where you can connect with others in a safe, open space. Whether you're new or experienced, it's a great chance to make friends and find community.
Held on the first Thursday of every month.
Queer Discussion Group
This group offers a safe and welcoming space for queer individuals and allies to engage in meaningful discussions on a variety of topics related to identity, sexuality, and community. Our discussions dive into subjects like feminism and submission, the LGBTQIA+ spectrum, and the intersection of kink and queerness. Whether you're exploring your identity or looking to connect with others, our group provides an open environment for sharing, learning, and supporting one another.
Held on the first Tuesday of every month.
Kitsap Kink
Join our welcoming group for kinky individuals in Kitsap and the surrounding areas! We come together for friendly conversations, often around a specific topic. Whether you bring a meal or just yourself, you’re sure to find engaging discussions and a supportive community.
Held on the first Monday of every month.
Kitsap Littles & Middles
Join our safe and welcoming discussion group for age players in Kitsap County! Open to all s-type adults, including littles, middles, and switches, we explore various topics related to age play, including mature subjects tied to sex and BDSM. Bring your non-disruptive comfort items and join us in a supportive space!
Held on the first Monday of each month.
Reoccurring Groups
Education is a big part of ACES. A variety of groups hold their meetings and munches at Kitsap ACES. You do not need to be a member of ACES to attend any of the meetings or munches and most educational opportunities.
Please check out the various groups on Fetlife.
Kitsap Littles n Middles: 1st Monday 7pm - 9pm
Kitsap Kink Group: 1st Monday 6:30pm - 8:30pm (Silverdale Subway)
Kitsap Queer Group: 1st Tuesday 7pm - 9pm
Kitsap Social Munch: 1st Thursday 6pm - 9pm (McCloud’s Grill House)
Bound to be Knotty: 2nd Tuesday 7pm - 9pm
Kitsap MAsT: 2nd Wednesday 7pm - 9pm
Kitsap Poly: 3rd Wednesday 7pm - 9pm
Kitsap Hands On: 3rd Thursday 7pm - 9pm
Kitsap Submissive: 4th Wednesday 7pm - 9pm
Kitsap Cigar Social: 4th Thursday 6:30pm - 9pm (WigWam Pub)
Kinky Gamer Night: 5th Monday 7pm - 9pm